Saturday, August 4, 2012

26 signs he likes you

;) =) :-P 

He smiles at you. A lot.

He laughs at your jokes, even the crappy ones.

He defends you to others.

He asks questions about you and your life beyond the generic "How you doin'?" or "Good weekend?"

He jokes about dating you.

You catch him staring at you. Your face, that is--if he's staring at your boobs or butt, it could just mean he's perving on you.

He's awkward whenever he talks to you. The first time I talked to my wife, I walked into a parking meter. Luckily for me, she found it adorable.

His body language gives him away: standing too close, leaning in, shoulders square to you, not turning his back to you.

He always uses your name when he talks to you. He knows your name and likes to say it.

He calls you by a nickname/pet name.

He asks you to "hang out" some time. (To a guy, the word date can be like garlic to a vampire, so they'll say "hang out" instead. Whatever you call it, it still means he wants to be around you.)

He calls you on the phone. Most guys hate talking on the phone. If a guy calls you, it means one of three things: you're his best friend, he needs help with his homework, or he has the itchy pants for you. 

He acts more respectable and mature when you're around.

He compliments your appearance. "You look nice today" is guyspeak for "I'm attracted to you."

When he cracks a joke, you're the first person he looks at for a reaction.

You keep bumping into him in random places. "I was just in the neighborhood," he says, or, "I had no idea you ate here." Right.

He tries go get into the same classes as you.

He copies your actions and voice inflections. It's called mirroring, and we usually aren't aware of it when we do it, which is why it's such a great indicator that someone is into you.

He buddies up to your friends and asks them questions about you. He knows they will probably report back to you, but he doesn't care.

He touches you, even subtly--a hand on your arm, a pat on your back, a grab of your shoulders. Humans are naturally drawn to things that attract us--we want to look at them, touch them. If you find a guy's hand on you, especially more than once, that's ahuge giveaway that he likes you.

His pupils dilate when he's talking to you.

He's active on your Facebook or Twitter pages. Lots of "likes," comments, retweets, etc.

He asks you what you think about certain other guys. He's trying to find out if you like anyone.

He shares an iTunes playlist with you: the 21st century version of making you a mix tape.

He asks your advice about other girls. This one could go either way, but getting your take on relationships could be his crafty way of finding out what you like and don't like. Or maybe he's just trying to make you jealous.

He notices and remembers things about you that most people don't. Your birthday. What you wore on a certain day. Your favorite TV show. When and where you met your best friend. What you had for lunch yesterday. Average Joe won't remember that stuff, even if you tell him. Hot For You remembers all of it (but if he knows stuff about you that you never told him--creeper alert!).

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